How to Approach Ladies -5 Sure Fire Strategies

How would you like to be able to communicate women with confidence and make a strong connection? Are you starting to realize that the only way to magnify your choices of getting into a great romance is to learn to approach girls? Think about it, if you never do basically have to take the choices which present themselves to  you. If this is the case do you find that this leaves you with relationships that don’t meet your needs? If so, and you are truly ready to put a stop to your frustrations then here are five proven strategies for approaching women.
•    The ‘ I already know you’ tactic.
This tactic is not so much about what you say as it is about how you say it. The idea is to pretend that you already know her and just act as you would if you ran into a friend in public. Look at it like this, most of the time you end up saying something like: “Hey, what’s going on?” There is no reason why you can’t say that to a strange women as well. Not only that, you can bet that if you approach her with the attitude that you already know her that she will be instantly available to you.

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•    The insult opener!
Ok, you have to be a bit careful with this strategy and make sure that you only use it on a girl who might be a open to it. You can say something like: “I bet you are really mean.” Of course she will want to know why and then you tell her: “Well, I bet you have to be. You have dudes asking you out all the time there’s just no way you can say yes to everyone of them.” Just make sure that it’s something you can turn around and make positive. This will make for a big surprise, and using surprise is a great ice breaker.
•    The advice opener
This is just timeless, and most often works when you ask her for a ‘female viewpoint’. Asking a women for advice is the best way to impress her and you can bet that she will answer you right away. If you are shopping, ask her for an opinion on two brands which you are trying to decide between. Or you can even ask about anything you have been talking about with one of your male friends. Something which is engaging and even a bit controversial is definitely going to get her interested in talking to you.

 

•    The compliment approach
This will work really well or backfire. The trick is to lay off of the compliments about her looks and find something of substance instead. look at it this way, she has heard ‘you are beautiful’ from every Tom Dick and Harry before you. look for something which she is wearing and compliment her on either that, or the way that she carries herself. Anything other than her looks will be a totally breath of fresh air to a female who hears praise about how beautiful her looks all day long.

•    The direct ‘I’m in a hurry tactic’
This one is might get you the most rejections but it can also get fast results. If you are someone who likes to get right to the point and wants to increase your options with women, then this is the opener which you have to master. The idea is to explain you are in a late for an appointment but that you would really regret it if you did not ask her to meet you sometime. Take note that you are asking to meet her sometime and not just asking for number. This demonstrates that you know what you want and gives her a reason to say yes or no so that you don’t have to sweat. Once you have set up the place to meet, then you can her digits ‘in case something comes up’ and end the conversation nicely. After all, you have to go right?

Choose one of thesestrategies and do it for a week, then move on to the different approach. If you are like most men you have a special approach and your own style which really works for you. Taking these approaches one at a time is going to you to find out what it is so that you can get increased results fast. Best of luck.

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